Using the Hands
Stroke and Suck
Use one hand to stroke the base of the shaft while you suck on the tip of the penis. Begin by circling
the very base of the shaft and work your way up, using soft, slow strokes. As you get to the tip, reverse
direction and use your lips to follow your hand back down the shaft. Get into an up and down rhythm where your
lips and your hand are moving in sync with one another.
Cup the Scrotum
Cup one hand gently around the scrotum and lightly lift the testicles upward as you suck downward on the shaft of
the penis. Most men can't take too much of this, so watch out!
While sucking on the tip of the penis, let one hand gently brush back and forth on the perenium (the area between
the base of the testicles and the anus). You can vary the pressure from very light to very strong and direct, depending
on the reaction of your partner.
Some men enjoy anal and prostate stimulation during oral sex. Extra care must be taken when dealing with
the anus, as it is rich in bacteria. Rimming is a practice where oral sex is performed on the rim of the man's anus.
Some men also enjoy insertion into the anus by a finger or a tongue. A finger can manually stimulate the
prostate from inside the anus.
Inner Thigh Stroke
While sucking on the penis, use both hands to lightly rub from the knees, up the inside of the thigh, to the
base of the penis. Fondle the penis and/or scrotum for a few seconds, then repeat, starting at the knees again. Alternate
between legs after a few strokes.
This one is especially good if your man has a nice set of abs. While sucking, rub one or both hands from the base of
the penis to the bottom of his chest and then back again. Grab the penis and fondle it and/or the scrotum for a second,
Make Him Suck Your Finger
While sucking, offer up one of your fingers (let your mood/tastes decide which) for him to suck. Most men
get really turned on by this - don't be surprised if it turns you one to. There's something
transcendant about it.