You can have a tremendous impact on the intensity of oral sex simply by varying the speed at which you
are sucking. Men tend to prefer longer, slower sucking towards the beginning of a blowjob with much
faster sucking as they near orgasm. By greatly slowing your speed or even stopping altogether as he
nears orgasm, you can give your partner a breather, a chance to settle down and enjoy more oral sex
without actually reaching orgasm.